The hardest thing for me so far is grocery shopping. It isn’t so much the choices ( though there are many), but I just have no idea what to buy or how to shop or cook for myself now that I am back in America. It is a good thing I am a five minute walk from the grocery store, so I can still go to the store often and only shop for myself for a few days at a time, but that doesn’t really make it any less difficult.
“In English,” Professor Austin said, “a double negative forms a positive. However, in some languages, such as Russian, a double negative remains a negative. But there isn’t a single language, not one, in which a double positive can express a negative.”
A voice from the back of the room piped up, “Yeah, right.”
Timișoara doors. Timișoara, Romania. May 2013.
A Stop on the Way to Timișoara. Marigina, Romania. May 2013.
Sunset through the train window. Romanian countryside. May 2013.
Râșnov Citadel and the town of Râșnov below it. Râșnov, Romania. May 2013.
Bran Castle. Bran, Romania. May 2013.
Window views at Bran Castle. Bran, Romania. May 2013.
Peleș Castle. In the Carpathian Mountains near Sinaia, Romania. May 2013.
View from the Black Tower. Brașov, Romania. May 2013.
Around the city center. Brașov, Romania. May 2013.
My Peace Corps service in Ukraine ended on May 16th. That night, I hopped on a train from Kiev to Bucharest to start my month-long travel adventure.
The first country was Romania, so I’ll be reblogging some of my favorite shots from my photo tumblr :)
I am in Belgrade, Serbia now, but in a few days I will head to London, then to Spain and Morocco before finally landing in my future home of Seattle, WA!
If you were alive in the 90s this will mean something to you.
If you ever decide you want to declare your love for me, make me one of these.
This is awesome, wow. Love.
wow this is pretty neat
I would marry someone that gave me this…
This is glorious.
TW: Sexual abuseElizabeth Smart became a household name after she was kidnapped from her home in Salt Lake City, UT at the age of 14 and held in captivity for nine months. She was forced into a polygamous marriage, tethered to a metal cable, and raped daily until she was rescued from her captors nine months later. Smart was recovered while she and her kidnappers were walking down a suburban street, leading many Americans who followed her story on the national news to wonder:Why didn’t she just run away as soon as she was brought outside?
Speaking to an audience at Johns Hopkins about issues of human trafficking and sexual violence, Smart recently offered an answer to that question. She explained that some human trafficking victims don’t run away because they feel worthless after being raped, particularly if they have been raised in conservative cultures that push abstinence-only education and emphasize sexual purity:
Smart said she “felt so dirty and so filthy” after she was raped by her captor, and she understands why someone wouldn’t run “because of that alone.”
Smart spoke at a Johns Hopkins human trafficking forum, saying she was raised in a religious household and recalled a school teacher who spoke once about abstinence and compared sex to chewing gum.
“I thought, ‘Oh, my gosh, I’m that chewed up piece of gum, nobody re-chews a piece of gum, you throw it away.’ And that’s how easy it is to feel like you know longer have worth, you know longer have value,” Smart said. “Why would it even be worth screaming out? Why would it even make a difference if you are rescued? Your life still has no value.”
Now in her mid-twenties, Smart runs a foundation to help educate children about sexual crimes. She now believes that children should grow up learning that “you will always have value and nothing can change that.”
Social psychologists and sexual abuse counselors agree that comprehensive sex education can help prevent sexual crimes. Teaching children about their bodies gives them the tools to describe acts of abuse without feeling as embarrassed or uncomfortable, and it also helps elevate their self-confidence and sense of bodily autonomy. A shame-based approach to genitalia and sexuality, on the other hand, sends kids the message that they can’t discuss or ask questions about any of those issues.
When I went through abstinence only education they did an activity where they put different activity from holding hands to intercourse around the room and asked everyone how far they would go, and how far their parents would be okay with them going. I refused to do the exercise because I thought it was inappropriate and my parents trusted me to be safe and make decisions for myself. Now that I look back on that I can’t imagine how traumatic that could have been to someone who had been sexually abused. We need to keep this in mind when discussing sex education.